CARELESSNESS IN DRESSING IS MORAL SUICIDE
In an unjust
society, silence is a crime. It’s appalling and worrisome to know that a lot of
Akokites now categorize decent dressing as an old fashion. I believe there are
other ways to tell the world that UNILAG, is the capital of fashion in Nigeria
than gallivanting around with bare skin, neglecting the purpose of dressing
which is to cover nakedness.
I once lived
with a mass communication sophomore student that failed a presentation course
because he put on a pair of trouser called “carrot” though he pleaded and went to redress but it was too late to mend. One
trend I have noticed is that most of us now dress to distract others in the place of worship on campus, many attend
the house of God attired the same way they would dress to a disco party but
when it is time for final year project defense they dress up meaning they fear
men than God. If you want to be a voice
in your generation start appearing like a serious minded fellow and not a
prostitute, those that wear skimpy, transparent and thigh revealing dresses have
little or no influence in the society, you can never see the cleavage of Queen
Elizabeth, Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Bukola Elemide (Asa), Remi Tinubu, Onyeka Onwenu and some other globally respected women.
Peer
pressure is a force that gravitate friends together and most times for evil or
negative tendencies. The desire to belong to the so called “big girls and big
boys” groups and the fear of rejection have led many youths into evil or
immoral acts, sometimes, against their will, some of them lack the strong will
to say no to immorality for fear of being isolated but it’s shameful to see our
supposed future mothers dressed half naked, womanhood is supposed to be
respected and some of these ladies are
from well-disciplined family background whereas some elderly women that are
supposed to be the custodian of our culture and morals are not left out of this
norm.
Moreover,
don’t sacrifice your future on the altar of temporary pleasure by the time you
waste your seeds to different soil then you will start complaining about low
sperm count when you get married. The most beautiful girl in 1960 is now an old
woman, that they call you most beautiful is not a license to be using your
dressing to constitute nuisance on campus. However, if men always harass you
watch the way you dress though indecent dressing is not an excuse to be raped
but it plays a role and if searching for a life partner is a reason why you
wear cloth that expose the provocative part of your body I can assure you that
only boys are attracted by such dressing and not husband. Africa has a rich culture that need to be preserved,
dressing decently will not make you
look older than your age as some youths think but it brings dignity, respect
and reduction in the numbers of floozy on our campus.
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